That depends. In the case of marriage by fraud or coercion, only the spouse who is the victim of violence or fraud may apply to the court for a declaration of nullity. Talk to a lawyer if you want to file this type of case or if you have received such a request. You can apply for legal separation by filing an application stating that you and your spouse live separately and separately and providing information similar to that of an application for dissolution of marriage. You must apply for legal separation in the district where: If the other party does not comply with a court order, you can file a motion for contempt and/or an application for an injunction explaining the reason, telling the court which part of the order is being ignored and asking the judge to convict that person for contempt of court. If the judge finds that the other party has violated the order, he or she decides on the appropriate sentence. Penalties for contempt of court may include a verbal reprimand, fine, imprisonment, or an obligation for the party to pay the other party`s attorney`s fees. A lawyer can help you with this process. If your spouse does not agree with the provision in the application, he or she has the right to file a counter-motion.

If this happens and you can`t agree through mediation or collaborative law, you`ll need to go to a judge to resolve the issues you couldn`t agree on. In some cases, legal separation can be as complicated as obtaining a divorce. A separation agreement or other written document is not required to be legally separated in North Carolina. To be separated from your spouse, you must live in different homes, and at least one of you must intend for the separation to be permanent. In general, you are not legally separated if your relationship has ended but you still live in the same apartment, or if you live in separate apartments without the intention of being permanently separated (e.g. for professional purposes). You can include an application to reinstate your maiden name in your divorce complaint and have the name change ordered in your divorce decree. You can also ask the court office to reinstate your old name. The necessary form can be found here.

What happens if I don`t apply for custody or child support before the divorce? A separation agreement is a private contract between spouses who are separated or plan to separate very soon. A separation agreement contains agreed-upon terms that address various issues related to separation, such as the spouse responsible for certain bills, whether a person will continue to live in the matrimonial home or where the children will live. A typical separation agreement includes details of separation, division of property, spousal support and, if there are children, custody and support. If no one applies for a division of the property (by filing a “fair distribution” application) before the absolute divorce is final, both parties forever lose the right to apply to a court for a division of assets. In this case, you will only keep the property that is in your name or possession. If you own a property in both names, that property will remain in both names even if you are divorced. The same rule applies to debt. After filing your file, you must ensure that your spouse receives a copy of your summons and complaint. Typically, this means either having to pay a fee for the sheriff to deliver the documents to your spouse in person, or sending the paperwork to your spouse by registered mail, FedEx, or UPS. If you send the documents by mail, you must prove to the court that your spouse received them. In some cases where you can`t find the other person, you may be able to serve them by publishing in a newspaper, but certain requirements apply.

The delivery of documents to your spouse himself is not a legal significance. NOTE: Legal separation does NOT end a marriage. Even if a judgment of separation has been issued, the parties remain legally married, unless and until a judgment of dissolution is registered. However, the court may, where appropriate, assist the other party in accordance with a proper request and notice. You can file a complaint asking for a fair distribution, in which you can also include other claims such as alimony, custody, child support, and/or divorce. If your spouse files a complaint against you, you can file your claims in a “response” (the document filed with the court in response to a complaint). There is no standard form for submitting a fair distribution, and the process is often complicated. Some counties have local regulations that require certain information to be provided at certain points in court proceedings. You can contact an attorney to help you with a fair distribution claim. Despite the confusing name, a bed and board divorce (a “DBB”) is not a divorce. A DBB is a court-ordered separation.

DBB orders are only available in certain circumstances if the spouse applying for the appointment can prove serious wrongdoing, such as adultery or drug addiction. Once you`ve broken up due to a DBB order, you can still resolve separation issues with a separation agreement, as if the separation had been voluntary. You can also ask the court to resolve issues such as property division and post-separation support in the DBB case. Once you are separated due to a DBB order, you still have to wait a year and file for an absolute divorce to legally end the marriage. Further information on the divorce application and the required forms can be found here. You can sign up here at one of Legal Aid of North Carolina`s clinics designed to help people file for divorce themselves. Applications for custody and alimony are not affected by divorce. Parents can apply for custody of children under the age of 18 at any time, regardless of marital status.

For more information, see the custody help topic. Similarly, parents can still apply for child support for children under 18 (or in high school and under 20), regardless of marital status. For more information, see the help section on family allowances. What is legal separation? How long does legal separation last? Does New York have residency requirements for legal separation? What is a separation agreement? Do I have to ask the court for a separation agreement? What should my separation agreement be? What should I do after I write my separation agreement? Is legal separation right for me? Legal separation does not suit me. What else can I do? I am legally separated, but now I want a divorce. What must I do? No. As long as you are able to divorce, your spouse does not have to accept the divorce. When you file for divorce, your spouse doesn`t have to fill out or sign paperwork, file anything in court, or go to court for a divorce hearing. However, your spouse must receive proper legal notice of the divorce application you have filed.

If you have not yet filed your separation agreement with the county clerk, you must file the separation agreement along with your divorce documents. What do I need to do to prove that I have been separated for at least one year? You must file and serve a new petition for divorce. It`s always best to have a lawyer when you get divorced. If you hired a lawyer to draft your separation agreement, that lawyer can help you file a conversion divorce. It`s also important to note that when applying for legal separation, whatever you agree to in a legal separation agreement may take precedence when you file for divorce. For example, if you agree to let your partner live in the marital home when you apply for a legal separation and continue to make mortgage payments, a judge may order you to continue to do so after a divorce.